In fact, people who come to sex later in life often bring real strengths to the table, including emotional maturity, a clearer sense of their own values and a better understanding of what they actually want from a partner, Needle said. Those qualities tend to shape a satisfying sexual relationship far more than a headstart ever would. The only real disadvantage comes from believing you’re at a disadvantage.”
Having sex later than the average age isn’t a negative, Dillon said. “Savoring the process of becoming a sexual being — and the anticipation of becoming sexually active — may ultimately lead to a deeper appreciation of the pleasures of sex when it begins.”
And it’s never too late to gain experience and learn new sexual skills. “I’ve worked with clients in their 70s who have wanted to explore new ways of connecting to their sexuality,” Hetzler said.
If you feel like you’re a late bloomer, should you tell a potential partner?
Not necessarily. You don’t owe someone a complete accounting of your sexual history, McNichols said. “There’s a difference between being honest and feeling like you must disclose your ‘number’ or your ‘body count.’”
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