If it comes up naturally, or if you want your partner to know, something brief and matter-of-fact works well: “I haven’t had a ton of experience, just so you know.” Full disclosure isn’t required. Just don’t pretend to be someone you’re not.
The right partner is much more likely to respect your honesty than judge you for your experience.
“If someone loses interest simply because you haven’t had many sexual experiences, they’re probably not the kind of partner who will create the safe, communicative and supportive relationship that leads to great sex anyway,” Needle said. “Once a relationship becomes intimate, how you treat each other matters much more than your sexual resume.”
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There are many people with long sexual histories having bad sex. What are they doing wrong that a late bloomer could get right?
Having a lot of experience in the bedroom isn’t synonymous with being a good lover, said psychologist Leonor de Oliveira in Lisbon, Portugal.
“A long sexual history does not necessarily translate into noticing and adjusting to a partner’s unique expressions of sexual response and pleasure in each sexual encounter,” she said. “A late bloomer may be particularly attentive to specific sexual cues and more open to partner feedback.”
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